Exploring Fetishes

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Kinsey studied them,  Joan Jett sang about them, and if we are truthful, most of us have at least one of them.  I’m talking about fetishes, of course.

Boots Make Me Hot!

In its purest form, to have an erotic fetish simply means that something consistently causes us to have sexual arousal.  Fetishes are centered around objects or specific situations.    For instance, I love boots.  I don’t care if they are ankle boots, thigh high latex, or something that falls between those two.  Boots just strongly appeal to me.

I honestly don’t know that they cause sexual arousal, but I know that they do create an endorphin reaction of some sort within me, and that I feel incredibly sexy when wearing them.  Not to mention the fact that wearing them enhances the desire to totally and completely dominate someone.  So while that isn’t precisely what I think of when I think of sexual arousal, it certainly has sexual and sensual connotations.

 Get Your Biscuits Warmed!

We can also have fetishes for specific situations.  If spanking  is an integral part of your fantasy play, then odds are that you have a spanking fetish.  That can be broken down even further as to the position of the person being spanked, and what is used to administer the spanking.

 This Little Piggy Went to Market

A fixation on certain body parts is called partialism.  Whether it is feet, large breasts, big dicks, or pretty ears, when that particular part is part of the fuel that fires us, we can spend hours worshiping it.  I’ve been on the receiving end of that type of worship on more than one instance, and the sheer devotion of it never fails to astound me.

What’s Your Fetish?

Though the advent of the Internet has helped fetishists understand they are not alone, it can still be somewhat daunting to share them with someone in our daily lives.  While being exposed and vulnerable can be a most exciting predicament to be in in a play situation,  it is not uncommon to shy away from those areas when not in an erotic encounter.

That is one of the many times that having an enchantrix confidante can come in very handy.  So…tell me…what’s your fetish?


 

Fun in the Snow with CBT

Please welcome our guest blogger for today, the stunning Ms Alexandria!

Fun in the Snow with Mistress Alexandria 1-800-601-6975

Fun in the Snow with Mistress Alexandria 1-800-601-6975

Now that it’s winter, it’s time for some snowy fun. The perfect kind of snow is on the ground right now. You know the kind that’s perfect for snowmen and snow angels.

Right now though, we are going to stay warm and cozy inside. You are naked of course, except for your cock ring, and I’m making some hot chocolate to warm us up. You on the other hand, are stroking your cock as requested. Sometimes I just like to spend the afternoon giving you guided masturbation instructions, watching you stroke for me, and tease you relentlessly.

After a bit of some teasing and edging , I tell you to go outside and play.

Yes, you heard me. I want to see a perfect snow angel on the sidewalk. Of course I don’t want you to be cold so I will give you a scarf for warmth. But that’s it, now off you go. In your mind you can’t help but wonder what I have in store for you.

As you head outside, the wind blows, making you shiver. Your body instantly gets cold and your cock deflates a bit. You run to the snow and lie down on your back, making a quick snow angel before running back inside.

I am there on the couch, smiling and drinking my hot chocolate.

You grab the hot chocolate I laid out for you and start drinking it quickly, hoping it will get you warmer. I tell you to slowly stroke your cock, nice long twisting strokes, and you look at me like I’m crazy. But you do what I say and soon you are feeling the pain of stroking a very cold dick.

It’s an awkward feeling and one that isn’t comfortable but as you stroke, you start to get warm again. And then I explain what I wanted you to do when I sent you out to make the snow angel. You see, snow angel where you lie on your back isn’t fun for me at all.

No… I want you to do a snow angel with a CBT twist. Which means face down so your dick gets nice and cold in the snow.

Burying Your Dick in the Snow

I arch my eyebrow and you head outside again, planting yourself face down in the snow. Your dick instantly goes into shock and you know this is the kind of torment game that you won’t be very good at. But of course you are going to give it your best to please your Mistress.

You head back inside and I smile my wicked smile at you. I tell you to start playing with your cock once more, as I give you more complicated masturbation instructions. You see my little pet, it’s cold outside today and I plan on staying inside where it’s nice and warm and cozy, so we are going to do this ALL afternoon!

By the time we are done, your cock will be in so much pain that you won’t even reach an orgasm if you tried.

Talk about the perfect way to spend a snowy afternoon! I know little pet, sometimes the love you have for your Mistress makes you hurt or causes you pain, but run along and go make me another angel. This time out you must keep your cock buried for 30 seconds, I will time you.

Much Love,

Mistress Alexandria

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CBT Mistress Extraordinaire 1-800-356-61691

P.S. I love using CBT techniques to ruin an orgasm. Check out my other blog, Ruined Orgasm Phone Sex for more great ways for you to end up just short of the pleasure you want so desperately!


 

Notes from Mistress Claire’s Chalkboard

I have various bits of information to share with you today.  But first, I am in need of a personal note taker to help keep all my thoughts in order.  Are there any volunteers?  I’ll have you write them on the blackboard.  If you are a sissy, I’ll put you in a plaid skirt, and make you stretchhhhhhhhhhhhhh up high to write.  Otherwise, I’ll want you naked and I’ll have fun toying with you with my pointer while you write.

Recent Additions to My Toy Chest

Thanks are in order to a couple of callers who have added to my kinky bounty.  First up, sissy jolene bought us matching paddles.  I am going to have a great deal of fun watching her on cam with this purchase!

Another caller, who loves strict phone sex, sent me a generous gift card.  I used it to buy a new Hitachi, some nipple suckers, a wartenberg wheel, and a pair of devastatingly hot knee high, stiletto heeled latex boots.

We’ll Be Having a Guest Mistress Blogger

Sometime in the future, you’ll open the window, see a post by Ms Alexandria.  She and I will be exchanging blog posts at random times throughout 2012.  So if you love Mistress Alex…and I *certainly* do…keep an eye out for her here.

I Now Have an Audio in the Enchantrix Audio Catalog

Yes, I have drug my pretty feet on this one.  Audios are somewhat of a challenge for me, as it seems that there is always an appliance that wants to run, or hammers that want to hammer or yards that are being mowed.  Silence is golden, but I don’t get much of it in my little suburban corner of the world.

However, I do have one now added to our erotic audio store.  It’s about someone who’s been in denied and is about to get a reward.  Or…are they? ~winks~

As was the case before, custom erotic audios can be ordered here.  Just think of the fun of being able to listen to me over and over again, whispering naughty fun in your ear while the rest of the world goes on by unsuspecting!


 

A Mindfuck & Fun with Your Balls

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The feel of stone underneath you bites into your knees, but it hardly registers in your mind as the tip of my crop slides from your right knee all the way up your right thigh.  The air suddenly thickens, and your nostrils flare as you try to take in more oxygen.

The old adage “be careful what you wish for” flits through your mind as the tip of the crop teases at your balls before caressing the sweet inner portion of your left thigh.  You’ve dreamed of a female domination session for so long.  As if the realization that it is finally happening wasn’t enough to cause your cock to jerk and weep droplets of pre-cum, the maddening feather touch of leather is more agonizing than any tease and denial experience that you’ve ever had.

My right foot slides forward, and the tip of my glossy black boot shimmys under your scrotum.  I jiggle my foot, and we both watch as your nuts move in time with the motion.

The devilish crop brushes over the top of them before a SMACK SMACK is delivered.  Your pelvis tilts upward in shock, and you want to recoil.

But you don’t.

My boot slips out from under your nutsack, then the sole lightly presses against it.  I apply a tad more pressure, then lighter, then harder again…rocking my foot back and forth while dragging the crop over your cock, slapping it with the edge a few times in rapid succession.

Then the end slides upward…over your belly, up your chest, over your throat, and it positions under your chin.  A flick of my wrist gives another smack, indicating that you should look upward.

You raise your eyes, and see something dangling from my left hand.  My eyes waltz in mirth as I see the confusion on your face.

“Persimmons, dearheart.  Have you never heard of them?”

Not having permission to speak, you shake your head mutely, looking at the two orange orbs that are lumped together in what appears to be the toe end of one of my discarded stockings.

I raise the crop to them, and give them a light swat.  The wattage on my smile increases as I look down at you.

“One eats them.  Though I have no plans to do so tonight.  Tonight…well…they rather remind me of something…”  As my voice trails off, the pressure from my boot increases to an uncomfortable level.  And my smile grows ever brighter.

“What do you think?  Do they remind you of anything, hanging there like that?”  The pressure dissipates, then increases again.

Suddenly, as if a cartoon light bulb went off over your head, you watch as the crop strikes them again, and they sway freely, and you KNOW.  A rapid nod of your head answers my question.

“Ah, I thought you’d see things my way.  They rather look like these, don’t they?” I ask as I roll my boot under your balls again before resuming the teasing touch of the crop.

“Since they look similar, I want you to pay close attention.”

I place the knotted stocking on the floor between your legs, and the edge of one of the plump fruits brushes against your thigh. I rotate my ankle, and in a flash, my foot has moved away from your nuts, my heel has lifted off the floor, and the persimmons are flattened under the ball of my boot.

You watch in fascinated horror as I grind the pair between boot and floor, then I lean back, and casually lift the sole toward your mouth.

“Lick it clean, boy.”  And as you open your mouth to do so, you feel my left boot push against your balls again.  A shudder ripples through you, and a laugh pours out into the semi-darkness.

“What’s the matter?  You wanted a strict mistress, didn’t you?

Your eyes huge, you nod while servicing the bottom of my boot, and try not to flinch when the crop stings your cock again.


 

Sissy Discipline – The Punishment of jolene

I am in possession of a slut who is overall a very pleasing, devoted sissy named jolene.

jolene First Called Me for Sissy Training About 4 Months ago

When jolene first called in, she shared some of the fantasies and dreams that she had had for years.  She had several, ranging from being more daring and not dressing just in private to getting some cock sucker training

In just a few short months, we have managed to accomplish several of those goals.  She has gone out dressed in public,  expanded her wardrobe, got an In The Studio makeover at MAC, and we’ve made very good use of her perfectly glossed lips.  jolene not only has committed herself to being molded by me, but she shows her appreciation with frequent Virtual Bouquets and wish list gifts, as a devoted sissy slut should do.

Then jolene Decided That She Had a Yearning to be Locked Up

A couple of months into our relationship, jolene emailed me about chastity training.  She’d read some posts here about my chastity slaves, and decided that she wanted to join the ranks.  Given that I adore chastity play, combined with  the fact that she had already demonstrated her ability to follow through, I readily agreed.  I instructed her to purchase a CB 6000, and we were on our way. jolene formally entered chastity training on October 13, 2011.

I Kept Her in Chastity For a Few Weeks Before Her First Release

jolene is eager to please, and proved to be an apt chastity pupil.  I let her cum on November 18.  That was 5 weeks and 1 day of denial, which is great for a first timer.    Once we got her head down out of the clouds from having an explosive orgasm, I planned to just keep her denied until around Christmas.  My thoughts were that we’d schedule some private time, she’d go on cam for me, and I’d let her release as a present.

But Sissy jolene Cheated and Had a Ruined Orgasm

I talked to jolene about 3 weeks after her allowed orgasm.  I found out that it was confession time.  She said she’d been revisiting thoughts of how good it felt to be able to cum, and before she knew it, she had a few droplets of cum leak out while doing Unauthorized Touching.

That is Unacceptable, and It Is Now Sissy Punishment Time

In terms of following my instructions, it doesn’t matter that jolene is normally a well disciplined slut who cherishes me.  I did not approach her and ask her for control of her clit.  She begged me to take  it.  Once I agreed, I expect that my instructions will be followed to the letter.

Since they were not, jolene is now in denial until a minimum of Valentine’s Day.   I haven’t decided if I will let her release then or not, but that is certainly the earliest time that I will consider it.  That will be 12 weeks and a few days since she was last allowed the pleasure of cumming to entertain me.

I chose Valentine’s Day as I think that is a good day for a sissy slut to re-affirm that she needs my controlling hand.  If I let her orgasm, I think I’ll make her squirt it out as a heart shaped pattern on a saucer, then lick it clean for me.

jolene will also have to suffer through giving pleasure to others during this time frame, but being denied her own.  The thought of it makes me smile.

It will hopefully serve to illustrate to her that I mean what I say.  Were it you, would you get the message?


 

New Year – New Schedule for Phone Sex Sessions

Happy New Year!  I hope that you all enjoyed your respective holidays, and are now ready to savor 2012.

And speaking of holidays, before I forget, thank you to whoever sent me the iTunes gift cards.  I received those a couple of days ago, and was very happy to get them.   There was . . . → Read More: New Year – New Schedule for Phone Sex Sessions


 

Kick Your New Year Off Right – Keeping Your Resolutions with Ms Claire

Ms Claire's New Years's Resolution Program 1-800-356-6169

I’m not sure how the practice of making New Year’s Resolutions developed, but it is an interesting concept.  On one hand, it lets you go into the New Year with a resolved mind and the promise of your goals being achieved.

On the other hand, people . . . → Read More: Kick Your New Year Off Right – Keeping Your Resolutions with Ms Claire


 

Merry Christmas and Thanks for All the Lovely Gifts!

I wanted to pause for a moment amidst the hustle and bustle that makes up the season, and wish you all a Merry Christmas.  Some of you I’ve gotten to know during my 8 months of taking phone sex calls at LDW.  Others I have not yet had the pleasure of speaking to, but read . . . → Read More: Merry Christmas and Thanks for All the Lovely Gifts!


 

What Kind of Mistress Do You Want from Santa?

I am sure that you all have been very, very good boys and sissy girls this year, so let’s imagine that Santa could bring you the mistress of your dreams.  What would she be like?

Would She Be Strict?

Some of you are best suited to a strict mistress. Whether she swings her cat . . . → Read More: What Kind of Mistress Do You Want from Santa?


 

The Wait

As instructed, every hour on the hour, for the last 7 hours, you’ve taken your cock out, and you’ve stroked for me.  As you’ve stroked, you’ve listened to the sound of my voice…that teasing, seductive voice mail that I left for you… and you’ve brought yourself to the edge of an explosive orgasm, only . . . → Read More: The Wait