Happy Anniversary to Me!


Mistress-Claire-legs-1If ever in my life has proven the adage of “time flies” to be true, it has been my time at LDW. What a whirlwind it has been since I first joined Ms Ally and the great ladies of LDW to amuse myself with you, and to have phone sex fun.  Over the course of that time, I have developed great relationships with some of you, and I am very thankful for those.

We’re Going to Celebrate!

I know that my changing schedule has been hard on some of you that were used to being able to catch me on a regular basis.  To celebrate my anniversary, my former daytime callers from the Enchantrix Empire will get another shot at having phone fun with me.  On Friday, May 3rd, I will be having my Featured Mistress Day.

For me, that will hopefully mean an opportunity to catch up with lots of you and see what you’ve been up to.  For you it will mean that 10 of the minutes that we spend together will be on the house, courtesy of LDW.

I’m going to be available from 8:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. that day, so you’ll have a good chunk of time to get through to me.  I won’t be taking appointments during that time frame, but will be taking scheduled call backs.  So if you know that you want to talk, and you see that I am on the line, ask one of our lovely dispatchers to put you in queue to be next.

I have no idea when I’ll have open login daytime hours again, so seize the chance, and we’ll have some fun!

xoxo

PS…Thanks to my slut for the Dior sunglasses.  They are beautiful!



 

Role Reversal – I Get Denied


Legs made to be worshiped

Legs made to be worshiped

I know that this will come as a surprise to some of you, but I’ve been experiencing denial this week.  Not the kind where I get to be on the dishing-it-out end where I tease and torment your cocks.  No, that is the fun kind, and one that I am used to.  I’m talking about me being denied, and in a most unpleasant way.

I’m talking about the weather, and how the seduction of Spring got me all excited with its warm breath and dazzling sun.  And just when she had me believing that I was going to get what I wanted, she dashed away, laughter trailing behind her, leaving me to deal with the let down of more cold weather.

Ugh.

That did not please your Mistress.  Not in one tiny bit.

I Like it Hot

Now, I’m not talking about hot sex.  Though that works for me as well.  There is nothing like having a stud lover drill into me.  And it’s made all the more enjoyable if someone else is there watching my pleasure.

I’m also not talking about spicy food.  While my hand always reaches for the jar that says “hot” as opposed to “mild.”, that isn’t what I”m talking about either.

I’m talking about the weather.  Hot, glorious summer.  When I can wear as little as the law allows, and enjoy the freedom of bare limbs.   I sometimes wish that all the world was a nudist colony, so I could be unencumbered by clothing.  But alas, such is not the way of the world.  Or at least my world.  So clothing is not optional.

My Reward Comes Soon

It’s mid-March, and warmth can’t be a prick tease forever.  Today promises to be a day where I might…just might…break out shorts for the first time this season.  I’m cold-natured, so it’s still going to be a bit on the chilly side.  So I’ll toss on a jacket with it, but I think that shorts are definitely in order today.

You see, I’m *that* woman.  You know the one I mean.  The one in the grocery store, bent over to get something off the bottom shelf, her shorts riding high, and ass tantalizingly presented.  You think that I don’t know why you’ve suddenly got to stop your cart, take an item off the shelf, and study the label like it was material for college finals?  I know *exactly* what has caused you to stop, and what has your focus.  It is me.

Me and and my beautiful, toned legs.  You’ll be thinking about them tonight, when you fuck your wife, or pump into your hand.  You know it, and I know it.

Knowing it makes me smile.



 

Chastity – It’s About *My* Pleasure


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Some of my phone sex callers have been with me for a very long time, and my sissyslut, jolene is one of them. Jolene came to me as a cross dresser with fantasies that she’s longed to have come true for many years.  It pleases me to say that we’ve lived out several of her fantasies, and as they are marked off her personal bucket list, more take their place.

But some of the things that we explore are not things that jolene had any interest in prior to becoming mine.  As a matter of fact, some of them might have been off-putting to her.  But she has done them, and done them well, as she is a slut that is devoted to my pleasure.

Be Careful What You Wish For

If you’ve read along over the course of what is rapidly approaching my 2 years here, you may remember that jolene is in chastity.  It was not at my expressed desire that she entered it.  Rather, she came to me, told me that she’d read things I posted about other chastity pets, and wanted to play as well, so to speak.  I arranged a program to fit her personal life, and then it was cock confinement time.  I wasn’t sure where it would go, as jolene was a self-professed chronic jerker.

It’s gone very well though, with only one slip up.  I assure you that jolene paid well for that mishap.  I am dreadful with timekeeping, and  days slipo by in a blur for me.  But I know we are now well in excess of 200 days.  The last time that she was allowed to orgasm  was on her birthday.  I’m not sure from that post when the exact day of the “party” was,  but I am sure that Miss Thang is counting the days, so she’ll know exactly how long it has been.

You Need What I Tell You That You Need

A week or so ago, jolene got in touch to schedule some cam time.  Neither of us could remember the last time that life had afforded us the luxury of me kicking back, and enjoying her amuse me.

Since it has been awhile, I decided that I was really going to just edge the fuck out of her.  I knew that her tolerance wold be low in that area, and I wanted to exploit it.

It was not long before jolene was moaning as she tends to do, telling me that she “needed to cum”.  I, of course, had to correct her on that.  She needs oxygen.  She needs food and water.  But she *wants* to orgasm, and that is a substantial difference.   In that areas of that nature, I determine what she needs.

And I’ll determine when she gets to finally release.  She knows that is the reality of the situation, and overall, I know that she wouldn’t want it to be any other way.  She just has to have the personal battle of her wants versus pleasing her Mistress.  True submission is not easy, and this is a prime example of it.

She’ll get to have that longed-for orgasm.

Someday.



 

Fun in the Florida Sun


Wine, sunsets, & friendship

Wine, sunsets, & friendship

I must admit, the title of this post is a bit misleading. When I was there, it was not overwhelmingly sunny in Florida, or at not least where I was. Oh, there was *some* sun, and it certainly was warmer than where I’d come from. But it wasn’t blazing sunshine that inspires hours on the beach with the warmth baking into your bones.   However, it was lots of fun, and that was largely due to the fact that my companion was none other than Ms. Alexandria.

1 Mistress + 1 Mistress = Good Time

Of course, I wasn’t gone the entire time that I took a break. I took a break because I needed a break, and I anticipate taking more of them. But during part of it,  I did have a magnificent time getting to know a very talented lifestyle and phone sex Mistress. She’s also an all-around great human being.

We’d been friends for awhile, and it was really a good deal of fun to be able to take the time to get to know each other better without phones ringing, and chastity boys and stroker toys tugging for our attention.

So, what do two life-loving dominant women do on vacation?  Get our way, for starters. ~winks~  We also drank just the right amount of wine, had incredible seafood, and very pampering spa treatments.  We went out and listened to some great music, which was the perfect backdrop for conversation.  Then, being both greedy and deserving, we availed ourselves of more spa treatments.  I’m out of the habit of getting massages, and need to get back into that habit post haste.  They are good for the body, mind, and soul.

I know that some of you will have hoped that we went out dungeon hopping,  picked up some BBC, cock teased some men, visited glory holes to instruct cocksuckers, or decided to pass the time by being entwined in each others passionate embrace.  I’d like to tell you that those things happened, but I can’t.  From the outset, relaxation was the name of the game, and none of the those things took place.

Except…

maybe the last one.

Maybe.

I’d tell you, but then I’d be violating the age old rule of What Happens on Vacation Stays on Vacation.

Besides, it’s more fun for me to let you wonder.  And my fun is what matters.

You could always arrange a two Mistress call, and maybe Ms. Alexandria and I will decide to tell you if you beg nicely enough.

Maybe.



 

Interview with a Lube Connoisseur


Read up, grab your lube, and give me a ring!

Read up, grab your lube, and give me a ring!

Note: Because it caused confusion for some of you, I am still doing One-on-One Long Term Cock Control, and none of my current clients are in jeopardy of losing their spot. I am no longer offering Advanced or Circuit, both of which involved coordination with several people.

Seeing as how I put my time, my energy, and myself into my blog, it’s always nice to know that the offering is appreciated.  I’ve had a countless number of first time callers who tell me that they read about XYZ here, and decided to ring me up for some phone fun.  That is something that I always enjoy hearing, and I also enjoy reading comments as well.  They not only give me feedback, but let me know that you are out there, following along whatever twisted paths that my mind decides to journey down.

You Learn Something Every Day

I always read my comments, and respond to most.  Over time, I’ve gotten to know some of you through that manner, and Forrest Hicks, an Enchantrix Empire follower, is one of those.  From those comments, I knew that Forrest was intelligent, insightful, and articulate.  I also knew he was a big fan of edging.

But what I didn’t know was that Forrest is a lube connoisseur.  A comment that he made on this post  jumped out at me, and the end result is this interview.  Due to the hectic nature of scheduling, it stretched out over a few weeks, and it always made me smile to see a response from him, waiting like a special treat in my inbox.

The Lube Afficiando

Let’s see what Forrest had to say, shall we?  I think we’ll start with an excerpt of  his comment that prompted the interview, then go from there.

“My favorite place to masturbate would be in my bed. I have all I need for a fun session right within reach. My Fleshlights are in a crate next to my bed, my other toys are in a stack of drawers next to that and my lubes that are currently open are in a tray on the night stand on one side of my bed. My lube tray consists of many different lubes, at last count there where 39 different ones in it. I have a bit of an obsession with lubes and sensations in general. I do not have any fantasies and for the most part the only role my mind has in my sessions is to enjoy the pleasure that my body is providing it. For the most part I am either watching porn or listening to some mistress audios and looking at pictures, all provided by my iPod.” – Forrest Hicks on ‘What’s Your Stroking Ritual’.

 

Ms Claire:  Tell me how you got this…and I’m using your word…”obsession”…with lube.  How did it develop?

Forrest:  Hehee  Obsession is about the best way I could think of to describe it.

I would have to say it stated with a bonus pack from Adam and Eve that included a lube sample. I was already using KY Jelly for my stroking purposes and it was ok. I tried the sample lube and liked it mostly because it was different than the KY. I did not know lubes were a thing before that so I looked through the catalog that came with the order, there were a handful of lubes so I decided to order two of them to try.

Over the years I bough a new, different one here and there as I needed more. The real obsession came when I started to learn orgasm control and was getting really good and lasting longer and longer. I would use more lube over the longer periods. When I got my first warming lube, everything changed, I wanted to find out what other different sensations were out there.

A Sensation Fetishist is Born

Ms Claire:  Tell me about your first experience with the warming lube, and what other different sensations that you ultimately discovered via other types of lube?

Forrest:  The first time I used a warming lube wasn’t really spectacular but it made me aware of sensations other than my hand sliding up and down my shaft. It did make me want to try other things though. I started using something different every time I would stroke. I had a few different lubes already so I would alternate using them to feel the difference between them. I did not have a way of obtaining new lubes other than mail order so I started trying other things. I used the old stand by, petroleum jelly, some different hand lotions and creams, baby oil and other things like that. Adult stores at the time did not sell lubes or at least if they did I did not realize this. When I did get a way to get different lubes I went a bit crazy with it.

Some of the sensations I have found with lubes have been warming of varying degrees, cooling and tingling lubes that are really interesting. I found one lube that starts off as a warming lube that with prolonged us starts to cool which is really interesting, as well. I have a lube that starts off with an abrasive feel to it that as it is worked starts to smooth out. Another one that as it dries becomes really tacky instead of just sticky.

As I have been thinking and writing about this I have realized that this may be where my sensation fetish most likely started.

Ms. Claire:  Before you found a source for more exotic lubes…when you were using common household products…which did you have a particular favorite?  And if so, what did you like most about it?

Forrest:  I got to liking hand lotions. There isn’t one that stands out in my mind just hand lotions. I like the way they feel, nice and smooth. I still have one or two around and use them from time to time.

Ms. Claire:  From what you’ve said, lube really enhances the pleasure of edge play for you.  Do you feel as if it adds to your endurance, or is it more a matter of simply providing more pleasure?

Forrest:  What an interesting question Ms Claire. I had to think on this as it had never crossed my mind before. I don’t think that lube helps my endurance directly. I get great pleasure from the lubes and as a result of this I want to last longer. In this way lubes make me want to increase my stamina.

Ms. Claire:  I would have not thought of it in the sense of the lubes making you want to increase your stamina, but that makes perfect sense. If something feels very good, of course we’d want to make it last as long as possible!

How long have you been amassing your lube collection? And what is the current number that you have?

Did He Say Bacon?

Forrest: My immediate first thought on how many I currently have was, a lot. :) It has been a while since I have counted them so this was a great opportunity to do just that. My tray, which is what is currently opened and what I am using, contains thirty three different lubes. I also have a couple of small boxes that contain lubes that I have not opened yet. Those boxes contain forty different lubes.

I started really getting more than I was using about five years ago. I realized that it was becoming a collection when I bought the bottle of Bacon Lube.

Ms. Claire:  ~lol~ Bacon Lube?  You are going to have to give me more information, Forrest. Because I am sure you do not mean that you have coated your shaft with bacon grease.

Or at least I think I am sure!

Forrest:  hehee

Well I do have to admit to having a little food play fun, but never with bacon grease. Bacon Lube is put out by J&D Meats. It started as an April fools joke. But the response they got for the one day joke prompted them to actually produce it in limited quantities. I bought a bottle of it just for the simple novelty of the item. I have used it a couple of times for the sake of doing a review on it but will likely just keep the bottle off to the side for the time being. The review is on the review page.

Ms. Claire:  You mentioned that you have boxes with 40 unopened tubes of lube. What prompts you to break the seal on a previously untried type?

Forrest:  Most of the time it is because I have finished a bottle of something specific like water based warming. I will usually open a new bottle of the same type. Sometimes it is just wanting to use something different. I really try not to have to many bottles open at once, it gets difficult choosing which ones to use.

Ms. Claire:  I totally can understand that. It’s why I avoid the cereal aisle. Choice is a good thing; too many can be overwhelming.

You mentioned water based. What other bases are there, and do you have specific uses for the various bases?

Forrest:  Besides water based lubes there are also silicon based and oil based lubes.  For my toys I use water based lubes exclusively. Silicon lubes are great for in the shower when I feel like playing in the water. And of course I enjoy all of them for manual stimulation as well.

Fun in the Shower

Ms. Claire:  Just a couple more questions for you, Forrest…

This shower play sounds intriguing to me. Tell me what you do in there, and how being in the shower enhances the experience.

Forrest:  I do enjoy masturbating in the shower, I like the feeling of the hot water flowing over my back and butt while I stroke, it is a very pleasant feeling. I also like to position my self and the shower head so that the spray is focused on my hand and cock, I find this to be very stimulating.

Ms. Claire:  Mmmmmm….those both sound like great ways of adding additional stimulation!

Last question…Let’s say that I’ve got someone who has moved beyond the basics, and is ready to try a lube that is a bit more adventurous. What specific lube would you recommend that he start with, and why?

Forrest:  I am not sure that there is any one lube that I can think of that I would call adventurous. I am going to assume that he is also advanced in orgasm control and can last more than a few minutes. I would suggest trying more that one lube during a session. I like to use a warming lube for a while and then switch over to a cooling or tingling lube. The contrast can be very interesting. Another is to use the ole original, petroleum jelly and then follow that up with a water based lube, it can give a very different sensation that either one of them by themselves.

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First of all, I want to thank you, Forrest, for being such a great interviewee!  Not only was the exchange a delight, but it was educational as well.

In the interview, Forrest mentioned a review of his Bacon lube.  You can find that and all his lube reviews on this page at Ms. Constance’s blog.

I loved doing this.  It was so much fun, and with the right person, I’d love to repeat the experience.  If you think you have something of interest that you’d like to be interviewed on, drop me an email with your proposal, and we’ll see if  it catches my interest.

Again, Forrest, thank you, it was a true pleasure!



 

New Year, New Things Going On, New Schedule


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Read up so you know when to call me!

Note: Though it got delayed due to my technical difficulties, I wanted to say thank you to each of you that sent me something during the holiday season. I love being spoiled!  And speaking of technical difficulties, there is an issue on . . . → Read More: New Year, New Things Going On, New Schedule



 

Happy New Year!


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Happy 2013!

It is so very good to be able to be here again! Thanks to all of you that were so patient while I was waiting the endless wait for my phone lines to be fixed. They are now, and I know that will be very welcome news to those . . . → Read More: Happy New Year!



 

Time to Break Out the Mistletoe!


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Your mouth is for my pleasure!

Note: Have you been missing me?  Be sure to read my Schedule page for important information as to when I’ll be available.  Also, I have had a request to post my most desired items from my wish list.  I don’t have time to do that; the . . . → Read More: Time to Break Out the Mistletoe!



 

Let’s Hear it For MILF’s!


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What’s your MILF fantasy?

I have always been enamored by the iconic still image ad for the movie “The Graduate“. It’s the one where all you can see of Mrs. Robinson is her sexy leg as she is pulling her stockings up. Outside of the part about her seducing someone young, . . . → Read More: Let’s Hear it For MILF’s!



 

Another Sissy Cock Sucker Enters the Fold


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Suck for me. You know you want to!

From the outset, I think I should probably clarify that not all sissies are cock suckers, and not all cock suckers are sissies. But in this case, my new acquisition is both.  Which means more fun for me all around!

Inductee Into Long . . . → Read More: Another Sissy Cock Sucker Enters the Fold